Adoption has been around for many years. It has provided countless families with children to love and helped their families grow. The first modern adoption laws introduced in 1851 provided a way for families to adopt children legally. Despite being around so long, it is a process often shrouded in mystery. Take the chance to read through a few common questions about adoption and learn the truth behind some of the biggest misconceptions.
How Long Does an Adoption Take?
The amount of time adoption can take will depend on many factors, so it’s tough to provide a timeline. What the adoptive parents are looking for, how they’re going through the adoption process, whether they’re interested in international or domestic adoptions, and more can all play a part in determining how long it might take.
Who Can Adopt?
Almost anyone can adopt. In most states, the minimum age for adoption is 21, though in others it is 18. Some agencies will require the prospective parent/parents to be at least 25 years old. The prospective parent/parents must pass a background health and may have to have a physical to show they don’t have any medical condition that will prevent them from being able to parent.
Can a Single Parent Adopt?
Again, this does depend. In the US, it is legal for a single parent to adopt, but some agencies may not work with single parents. When adopting internationally, be aware that some countries do not allow single-parent adoptions. Finding the right agency to work with or looking into other ways to adopt may be preferable for single parents.
What are the Adoption Costs?
With the wide range of types of adoption, the cost can vary significantly. Adopting through an agency may differ from working exclusively with a family lawyer for private adoption. International adoption can also vary in costs, depending on how the adoption is done, the country the adopted child is coming from, and other factors. Adoption can be expensive, but help is available in some instances, too.
What is an Open or Closed Adoption?
Whether an adoption is considered open or closed is based on the contact the biological parents wish to have with the child. In an open adoption, the biological parents’ contact information is provided to the adoptive parents. In some cases, the biological parents can meet the child as they grow. In a closed adoption, the biological parents’ contact information is kept confidential. This doesn’t mean finding the biological parents is impossible, but it can make it more challenging.
Which is Better: International Vs. Domestic Adoptions?
Neither one is better – it depends on the adoptive parents' wishes. Some may want to provide love and stability to a child from another country, while others may wish to look closer to home. The decision may also be influenced by how quickly the parents want to adopt, whether they’re willing to go through the red tape common with international adoptions, and many other factors.
Is It Better to Go Through an Agency or Work With a Lawyer?
There are many ways to go through the adoption process, and working with an agency to help find a prospective child can make it easier. However, working with an adoption lawyer is also a good idea. The lawyer can ensure everything is done legally and help the prospective parents through the legal side of the process. If someone already knows of a child they want to adopt, and adoption is possible, working directly with a lawyer may be beneficial, as the lawyer can provide information on the steps they need to take.
Common Adoption Myths and The Truth Behind Them
Many myths about adoption are still prevalent today. Read through some of the most common myths and learn the truth about adoption.
You Have to be Married
It is not a requirement for parents to be married. Single parents can adopt children. There are some agencies and international countries that may not work with single parents, but someone who is single can adopt using other methods.
You Have to Own a Home
Homeownership is not a requirement for adoption. Adoptive parents can own a home or rent. The child needs stability, but as long as the prospective parents have a home, they do not need to own it to adopt.
You Can’t Adopt if You Have Biological Children
Parents with biological children can adopt. Many adoptive parents also have biological children. Though parents who can’t have children may look to adopt, some parents have children already and are looking to add to their family to have more children to care for and love.
Biological Parents can Take the Child Back
There have been cases where adoptions have fallen through, but that is before the adoption is finalized or if the adoption was not done legally. As long as the adoption has been finalized, the biological parents can't take the child back. Working with a lawyer is a good way to ensure everything is done legally.
International Adoptions are Faster
While this can be true in some situations, it’s not necessarily true all the time. In fact, because of the red tape and regulations many countries have, it can be more complicated to adopt from a foreign country. There can also be delays and other challenges prospective parents may need to face before the adoption is complete.
Prospective Parents Must Have Perfect Health
While parents may need to go through a physical before an adoption is complete, they do not need to be in perfect health. As long as any medical conditions, physical or mental, are controlled and they have the ability to parent, a health concern is not going to keep the adoption from being finalized.
Prospective Parents Must Have a Lot of Money
It’s not necessary to be rich to adopt. Adoption can be expensive, but there are ways to minimize expenses. As long as the parents are able to provide for the child, they do not have to be rich or have a certain amount of money.
Adoption is a process that has been around for many years, but it is still often confusing. There are many avenues for adoption and the process is different for each one. If you’re thinking about adopting a child, speak with a lawyer today to learn more about your options and how they can help.
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